What It Means to Be a Reflector and How to Thrive as an Entrepreneur
Hi, I’m Justyna Kedra, founder of WERULE, a mentorship AI app, and the Female Founder Network. My entrepreneurial journey has been a thrilling ride, full of highs, lows, uncertainty, and an insatiable desire to make an impact in the world of business. Through all the hustle, however, something always felt off. I couldn’t quite put my finger on it—why, despite my drive and hard work, did I feel scattered, drained, or unsure at times?
It wasn’t until I discovered Human Design and learned that I’m a Reflector that the pieces finally started to fall into place. This revelation was nothing short of transformative, changing the way I approached business, decision-making, and even self-care. In this post, I’ll take you through my personal experience of learning that I’m a Reflector, how it reshaped my entrepreneurial journey, and share some practical tips that might help other Reflector entrepreneurs thrive.
Let’s dive in.
The Journey to Discovering My Reflector Design
As an entrepreneur, I was always chasing the next big idea or opportunity, constantly pushing forward, and striving to grow my businesses. I poured myself into every aspect of my work—sometimes too much. From building WERULE to nurturing the Female Founder Network, I found myself stuck in a cycle of urgency, decision fatigue, and doubt. I often acted on impulse, trusting my gut or the latest "entrepreneurial hustle" advice I found online, but this didn’t always work out the way I hoped. I felt constantly “off,” like I wasn’t doing things the right way, but I couldn’t figure out why.
That’s when I stumbled upon Human Design—a system that integrates astrology, the I Ching, the Kabbalah, and the chakra system to offer a personalized blueprint of how we are designed to operate in the world. It was when I learned that I am a Reflector that everything suddenly made sense.
What Does It Mean to Be a Reflector?
Reflectors make up just about 1% of the population, making us the rarest of the Human Design types. The key characteristic of a Reflector is that our energy centers (the nine energy centers in Human Design) are completely undefined. This means that we are highly sensitive to the energy around us, and we don’t have a fixed or consistent energy signature like other types (Manifestors, Generators, Projectors). Instead, we are like mirrors, reflecting the environment, the people we interact with, and even the emotional states of those around us.
At first, this idea seemed strange. A mirror? How could that be my superpower? But as I researched further, I began to realize that this fluid, adaptable nature is actually a gift. It allows me to intuitively understand the health, vitality, and energy of the environments I find myself in, whether it’s the people I’m working with, the companies I collaborate with, or even the culture I’m immersed in.
However, this ability also comes with its challenges. I’ve learned that when I’m surrounded by negative or misaligned energy, it can be overwhelming. It took time for me to understand that my energy is not my own—it’s a reflection of the energy around me, and that’s okay.
How Discovering I Am a Reflector Changed My Entrepreneurial Journey
Learning that I am a Reflector completely transformed how I approach both business and life. Here are a few lessons I’ve learned since discovering my Human Design and how it has shaped my work with WERULE and the Female Founder Network.
1. Creating the Right Environment Is Essential
As a Reflector, the energy around me directly impacts my well-being and productivity. I quickly learned that to thrive as an entrepreneur, I needed to create a supportive environment—both physically and emotionally. In my business, this means surrounding myself with people who share my values, working with teams that are in alignment with my vision, and fostering an atmosphere where I feel safe, supported, and understood.
When I’m in a healthy environment, I feel energized, clear, and focused. But if the energy is off—whether it’s from negative influences, unhealthy dynamics, or misaligned goals—I can feel drained, unproductive, and out of sync. This realization has made me incredibly selective about the people I work with and the spaces I inhabit.
For example, with WERULE, I carefully choose mentors and advisors whose energy aligns with my vision for the company. I ensure that the Female Founder Network operates with an ethos of empowerment and mutual support. When my team is aligned with my goals and values, the business flourishes, and my energy naturally follows suit.
2. Patience Is Key: Don’t Rush Major Decisions
One of the most significant revelations I had as a Reflector was learning that I need time to make decisions. Unlike other types, who often operate on instinct or immediate clarity, I need a full 28-day lunar cycle to make significant decisions. This realization was a game-changer.
I had spent so much time trying to rush decisions, often acting out of fear or a desire to keep up with the fast pace of entrepreneurship. I now realize that patience and reflection are my allies. Whether it’s launching new features for WERULE or scaling the Female Founder Network, I give myself 28 days to sit with my decisions. I let the energy around me settle, I reflect, and only then do I make choices that feel truly aligned with my authentic self.
For instance, when deciding whether to expand into a new market or release a new feature, I allow myself the space to gather insights, wait for my thoughts to marinate, and check in with my intuition. This approach ensures that my decisions are grounded and sustainable in the long run.
3. Adaptability Is My Superpower
As a Reflector, I’ve realized that my adaptability is one of my greatest strengths. I am not confined to rigid systems or structures. Instead, I have the ability to shift, pivot, and evolve based on the circumstances, the market, and the people I’m working with. This flexibility allows me to respond to the needs of my business in real time.
While other types may seek stability and consistency, I thrive on fluidity. Over the years, WERULE and the Female Founder Network have evolved multiple times based on new insights, market feedback, and shifts in the business landscape. This adaptability has been instrumental in helping me scale both ventures and stay ahead of the curve.
Being a Reflector also means that I’m open to change, rather than holding on too tightly to old plans or strategies. If something isn’t working, I’m quick to let go and adjust. This mindset has allowed my businesses to grow in ways I never expected and adapt to the ever-changing business environment.
4. The Importance of Self-Care and Energy Management
Perhaps the most important lesson I’ve learned as a Reflector entrepreneur is the need to manage my energy carefully. As I absorb the energy around me, I can easily become overwhelmed and burned out if I don’t take proactive steps to care for myself.
I’ve learned that I must prioritize self-care, create boundaries, and take regular breaks to recharge. Self-care isn’t a luxury for me—it’s a necessity. I build rest into my routine and listen to my body when it tells me to slow down. Without this balance, I risk depleting my energy and becoming less effective in my business and leadership.
When I take care of myself—physically, emotionally, and mentally—I show up as a stronger leader, more energized, and more aligned with my true purpose. This self-awareness has been key to my long-term success as an entrepreneur.
Tips for Entrepreneurs Who Are Reflectors
If you are a Reflector entrepreneur or you’re just starting to explore your Human Design, here are some practical tips that have helped me on my journey:
1. Create a Supportive Environment
Surround yourself with people who are aligned with your vision and energy. Your team should be positive, nurturing, and supportive of your needs as a Reflector. This environment will help you feel grounded and energized.
2. Give Yourself Time for Major Decisions
Allow yourself a 28-day lunar cycle to make significant decisions. Don’t rush into anything. Let your thoughts settle and your emotions clear before moving forward. This will help you make decisions that are aligned with your true self.
3. Embrace Your Fluidity
Adaptability is your strength. Don’t be afraid to pivot or change direction as your business evolves. Trust that your ability to shift and adjust is an asset, not a weakness.
4. Prioritize Self-Care
Self-care is essential for Reflectors. Build regular rest and relaxation into your routine. Make sure you take breaks when needed and avoid overloading yourself with too many commitments. Your energy is precious.
5. Trust the Process
Being a Reflector means that clarity often comes with time. Don’t feel pressured to make quick decisions. Trust the process and have faith that your insights will come when the time is right.
Conclusion: Thriving as a Reflector Entrepreneur
Embracing my Reflector design was a turning point in my entrepreneurial journey. It allowed me to understand that I am not meant to operate like everyone else. My energy, my decisions, and my path are unique, and that’s okay. Today, I continue to grow WERULE and the Female Founder Network by honoring my Reflector nature, creating supportive environments, taking time to reflect, and embracing adaptability.
To all the Reflector entrepreneurs out there, I encourage you to trust yourself and your design. Embrace your unique strengths, allow yourself the space to reflect, and build a business that aligns with your true nature. When you do, you’ll find that the entrepreneurial journey becomes more effortless, fulfilling, and, above all, aligned with your purpose.
Let’s reflect, adapt, and create something extraordinary—together.
FAQs About Being a Reflector Entrepreneur
Q: What is the most important thing for Reflectors in business?
A: The most important thing is to create a supportive environment and ensure that you are surrounded by positive, aligned energy. Reflectors thrive in environments where they feel seen, understood, and supported.
Q: How long does it take for a Reflector to make a decision?
A: Reflectors should give themselves a full 28-day lunar cycle to make significant decisions. This gives enough time to reflect, process emotions, and achieve clarity.
Q: How can I manage my energy as a Reflector entrepreneur?
A: Make self-care a priority, set boundaries, and take breaks when needed. Protect your energy by avoiding toxic or misaligned environments.
Q: Can Reflectors be successful in business?
A: Absolutely! Reflectors bring unique strengths to entrepreneurship, including adaptability, a deep understanding of their environment, and the ability to pivot when necessary. By embracing your design, you can thrive in your business endeavors.
